Expectation vs reality: on the beach!

Working days, responsibilities, tasks… when we finally have the chance to plan a nice break, a day, a weekend, or more, the beach is one of the greatest ideas we can have. At least this is what I think. But definitely,  talking about trips there are no rules. Not everything necessarily fits with everybody.

Recently, a friend who was really busy and tired after a work project told me she desperately needed a break. Without hesitating, I said, “go to the beach”. But her face showed me it was not the idea she wanted to hear. A long time ago she hasn't been on the beach because the memories she had were everything but nice. She experienced an expectation vs reality situation. Here you have some of her points.

Disadvantages of beach holidays.

• Walking in the burning sand is so annoying. Sometimes it is not fine so you walk on burning rocks.
• Sunscreen is really necessary but when it mixes with sand, the result is a heavy mask not only on your face but also on the whole body.
• If by any chance the weather is windy, that's not pleasant.
• For sure you will choose a pretty cool beach to enjoy the day. Sadly, those beaches are full of sellers. Yes, if you know about that destination, be sure many more also know and they go with plenty of different objectives. From offering you massages, tours, handmade stuff, clamshell bracelets and necklaces, all kinds of food, beverages, clothes, glasses, toys to very exotic things like shark jaws to hang on a wall. And they insist all day, it doesn’t matter they see you having a great nap.
• If the sellers give you a break, ‘fun’ won’t stop because you have insects to walk on you and bite you anytime.
• And sex… sex can be a nightmare.

I stopped her here because ok, I got her points but I have a different experience and I love the beach. Usually, our imagination, influenced by movies and other stuff, shows us just a pretty cool, relaxing, and romantic side from leisure. We would like just to arrive at the chosen destination for the fun or romance to happen magically. Every landscape has its challenges but the beauty they offer is priceless. To be prepared is the clue to enjoy. If we get ready to face the basic challenges, we can have a great experience.

By the way, if you enjoy this article you can also like "Expectation vs reality: first time into the forest!".

How to enjoy the beach? - Tips.

• Heat, yep, it is the biggest issue to take care of not to damage our skin and health. But it is not hard. Just choose the ideal sunscreen for protecting your kind of skin. Variety is huge nowadays. You can check our recommendations for choosing the correct sunscreen in this article.
• If it gets too windy, you always can hide in a nice bar to enjoy a beer. The weather can get better or you can get a cool party there. Don’t get frustrated about things you can not control like nature. Remember you are there to enjoy, to rest, to have fun. With this in mind, you will develop a very nice and useful skill of adaptation.
• To avoid sellers you have choices. First, don't go only to tourist places. As my friend said, everybody, will be there waiting for you and your money. If they are so worthy to be visited, go but try to be there early in the morning. Sellers work all day and for sure they also party so they won't appear before 10 – 11 am. Once you had enough, move to one of the plenty of hidden paradises every beach area has. There is also the choice to look like a homeless. Abandon a bit your look not to be bothered. Lack of money is not attractive to sellers.
• Insects can be annoying and even dangerous. With them, the ‘homeless strategy’ sadly doesn't work. But there are many repellents you can try. From the very effective but a bit toxic ones to organic and natural choices. There are some products to make your clothes work as repellents.
• About sex on the beach, here I finally can’t argue. Whoever who had tried can tell you. If sand is uncomfortable in the legs, arms, face… Imagine in your most delicate parts or around the condom! Don’t forget the friction factor.

Now you know how to be prepared! Your expectations won't be disappointed by reality. Enjoy your next beach holiday!

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